heart inflamed, soul enchanted.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?id=694350694&aid=71904#!/event.php?eid=198373750196159

Text 09158575737 for details.
1k gets you a ticket in and a chance to participate in meeting 25 singles, and enjoying stand up comedy from MIke Unson

http://mikeunson.multiply.com/

Sex ah este, sax and comedy, laugh your heart out at Greenbelt, SPICY FINGERS toNGIHT, MON, 9pm with aN eat all you can of comedians ( http://www.comedycartel.com.ph/comedians.php ) and ofcourse moi as host! No insults, all smart arse! see you there, 500 pesos per head. this is a must try! please pass..

Im really uber excited because I just watched one show, and then I became a certified cartelaholic..and now instead of curing me they've taken me into their fold. (thank you! :D) So itll be satisfaction guaranteed~

I can see that the surveys are shifting. bayani is in the lead as of May 2 in the VP polls, and Gordon is second now, followed by Villar. By today, Gordon and Bayani can win.
Kaya kailangan nating bumoto ng galing sa sarili nating puso, kung sino ba talaga ang nakikita nating may kakayahang mamuno. Ang galing nina Gordon at Bayani ay matagal niyo nang naririnig. Huwag maging hunghang. Tayo ay kailangang mag-isip, para magkaroon ng pinunong karapat dapat.

Iboto sina Gordon and Bayani, mara magbago na ang mga kalechehang ito. Si noynoy ay walang alam. Siya mismo nagsabing ipapasa niya ang trabaho kay MAr. Sumasakay lang siya sa pagkamatay ng nanay niya. HIndi na siya nahiya. SI Mar ay pacute pero walang binago sa bayan. Si Villar ay mukang Manny money talaga. Si Erap ay ninanais magkamal ng salapi muli dahil kung pagtulong lang ang hanap niya puwede namang gawin yoon ng wala sa posisyon. Noong nasa puwesto naman siya, wala ding nagbago. Si binay ay kurakot na taglay. Sa Bilyon-bilyong budget ng makati, barya lang at palimos ang nakararating sa mga taong, walang ka muang-muang na tuwang tuwa sa payola at barya.

GUMISING! Si gordon at Bayani lang ang tapat na naglilingkod. Kahit nagurakot man, hamak na mas madami silang nagawa kaysa sa kahit kanino.Marikina, MMDA, Pasig River cleaning, U turn, Footbridge, Ondoy rehabilitation within 30 days, SUbic Bay freeport, 40 years ng Red cross, General Hospital ng SUbic, 2000,000 jobs, boost in tourism , jobs and revenue for Boracay, donsol, Cagayan, at marami pang iba! 15,000 homes built for FREE, Marikina squatter relocation with livelihood program, Tourism Act, AEL, at higit sa 100 bill sa Senado:
 
Si Gordon at Bayani ay maipagmamalaki sa kahit anong puwesto.

Nangunguna.

Ginagaya.

Kinatatakutan ng kurakot.


Sila na ang pag-asa.

Iboto at maghanda para sa bagong Pilipinas.

kung hindi, magdasal. dahil uulit nanaman ang lahat.


 Paki pasa nalang po.  

Surveys make it seem like we already have a winner, but the truth is that it is a tight fight between 4 candidates, Gordon, Noynoy, Villar, and Erap.
That is why who you vote is crucial. That is why you must break away from the majority and use your mind and heart to discern the true leader.

Here are some of the sites where you will find that Gordon is the best choice. He has lifted Olongapo from the Pinatubo tragedy to be a model community, he has instilled values in what was once a morally stunted place. He has produced billions worth for the country from foreign investment and has created 200, 000 jobs in Subic. He has created in Subic, an international freeport and a model city. The works show the resounding success and brilliance of leadership of this man.

By volunteering for free for RED Cross for 40 years (i believe 40.) he has shown his loving commitment to the people, so far beyond what other politicians who make promises they cannot keep. Their platform for the future include concrete ways to ameliorate the farmer's poverty by having cooperatives that dictate prices instead of the middle man oligarch doing it and starving the farmer in the process. He and Bayani fernando will raise public school teacher's salaries to 40,000 a month. This will create a better pool of public school teachers, and improve the lives of present teachers who have to create projects to raise their personal funds! This will ensure that quality education is given, and we will rise as a people.

In their platform, they will not stand for drugs, gambling and smuggling. When bayani is vice president, just as sure as he has implemented the law in marikina and MMDA, he shall implement the law everywhere.
To fight corruption, they will make the Sandigan Bayan judge an elected post, free from debt of any patron, and free to serve the people's interest. They will create governement managed elections so that each candidate will spend an equal amount of money.

More than this, their track records show that when they say it, they truly do it, because these guys mean business.

here is their platform and a few of our videos to further enlighten you to vote for them. This is your last chance for a good, just and progressive Philippines.


Gordon's do or die promise: (if he doesnt i will be there on his execution)

http://www.youtube.com/user/GordongirlBayanibabe#p/a/u/0/5rduTZqpqOs


Bayani's promise naman

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBncs8Ztgfg

I love dick! Gordon! and the reasons why you should too
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekC_fX0rZAY&feature=channel


Liwanag sa Dilim: platform and past plus lots of funny girl things

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VndU_BaO90





FORWARD TO ALL PLEASE :)
I have given my all for this because I know they are the most able and
principled men for the job of turning our country around and creating
a brighter future for ALL of us.

GORDON PLATFORM

MAKING OUR COUNTRY A BETTER PLACE

Vision, Strategy and Program of Bagumbayan 2010

Introduction

The supreme goal and objective of our political party is to make the
Philippines a better place to live in, work in, invest in, worship in,
and all those other things that citizens seek in a free and democratic
society. This is the dream we all share as members of Bagumbayan. This
is also the hope we hear from our people as we travel and listen to
them all over our archipelago.

As the first people to recover their independence after World War II
in July 1946, the Philippines should have become by now a truly
modern, developed and democratic nation. Instead, we are a nation in
chronic crisis and decline.

In 1957 the World Bank said that “The Philippines has achieved a
position in the Far East second only to Japan…[and] the prospects of
the Philippine economy for sustained long-term growth are good.”
Today, 53 years later, the Philippines is a laggard in Asia, overtaken
by Asian neighbors who used to look at us with envy.

Over this half-century, from one administration to another, great
opportunities have come and gone. We have faltered because our
government did not rise to its basic reason for being: to assure peace
and security throughout the land, to provide opportunity for all, to
lead in growing the economy, and to spread the benefits across all
sectors of society.

Instead of peace, our country has been torn apart by rebellion,
secession and disorder. Instead of our poor attaining a better life,
we have only seen the rich get richer. Instead of sustainable
development, we have witnessed boom and bust, growth and recession.
Instead of providing for all, we have become less capable of providing
for the health, education and welfare of our people as our numbers
have increased to 94 million.

Strategy for Change: Effective Government
We submit that our national decline is due, not to any deficiency of
talent of our people, or a damaged culture, or a lack of democracy. We
have faltered because of the lack of effective government in our
country.

Every problem that torments us today is rooted in poor governance.
From the perennial complaint about graft and corruption, to the
nightmare in Maguindanao and the rise of private armies, to the huge
fiscal deficit and the failure to collect the proper taxes, to the
perpetual weakness of the economy, to the decline of our education and
public health systems, to our failure to compete in the world – all
these are due to weak and ineffective government.
The way forward therefore, first and foremost, is the installation of
Effective Government in our country. On this rests our vision and
strategy for the transformation of the Philippines into a modern and
progressive nation.
Simply stated, Effective Government means a government that can get
things done, meet its targets and objectives, and realize the vision
of progress and welfare for the nation. It means a government that can
enable our people and our country to compete in the world –
economically, politically, socially and culturally.
Five Strategic Objectives
Our strategy for change includes five key pillars:


• Establishing Peace and Security – We will uphold the authority of
the Philippine Government in all provinces and regions of the country
by establishing peace and order, bringing an end to the communist
insurgency and Muslim secessionist rebellion, dismantling all private
armies, and keeping the peace in all communities through effective
local law enforcement.
• Rooting Out Graft and Corruption – We will stop graft and corruption
in all levels of the government bureaucracy by making the President
lead by example, installing full transparency and accountability in
government operations, strengthening the independence of the
Ombudsman, and overhauling government agencies long noted for graft.
• Mobilizing Government for National Modernization – We will transform
the bureaucracy and the public service into a productive, efficient
and forward-looking organization by adopting best practices in
government operations, improving government finances through the
collection of proper taxes, providing clear roles, guidelines and
procedures for each government department and employee, and
establishing meritocracy as the basis for advancement in the public
service.
• Managing the Economy for Growth and Global Competition – We will
raise the Philippine economy to a new level of growth and global
competitiveness by investing in the modernization of national
infrastructure, releasing the energies of the private sector,
simplifying and streamlining the rules and procedures for doing
business, raising domestic and foreign investments in the economy, and
raising productivity in agriculture, industry and services.
• Developing our Human Resources – Recognizing that our people as our
most important national resource, we pledge to provide for quality
basic education to every Filipino child, modernize our education
system from elementary to tertiary level, relieve once and for all the
classroom shortage, modernize our public health system and provide
health insurance for every citizen.
Establishing Peace and Security
We will establish peace and security throughout the archipelago by
implementing the following measures:

• Enforcing the authority of the State in every community, every
province and every region in the country.
• Bringing an end to the Communist insurgency and the Muslim
secessionist rebellion through the process of peaceful negotiation if
possible, or by force of arms if necessary.
• Disarming and disbanding of all private armies in the country.
• Improving law enforcement through the reorganization of the
Philippine National Police and the greater participation of local
government units and local communities in keeping the peace within
their jurisdiction.
• Waging a vigorous campaign against organized crime, the drug trade
and illegal gambling.
Rooting Out Graft and Corruption
We assign high priority to rooting out graft and corruption because it
is a major obstacle to national progress and modernization. The spread
of graft from revenue agencies to virtually all government agencies is
pervasive. Local governments have likewise gotten into the action in a
big way. To root our this menace, we pledge to implement the following
measures:

• Make the position of Ombudsman a nationally elected position.
• Declog the Sandiganbayan in the prosecution of corruption cases.
• Eliminate presidential pardon for government officials found guilty of graft.
• Establish full transparency in executive projects, and include
cabinet officials under judicial and congressional oversight.
• Punish all those who offer bribes and corrupt members of the bureaucracy.
Reinventing Government for National Modernization
Recognizing that the role of government has become more central and
vital than ever in the new global economy, and considering how weak
and ineffective our government has been for many decades, we assign
top priority to the transformation of the government bureaucracy into
an engine for national modernization and development. The key to
achieving this are the following measures:

According to the research, *as I will post Gibo's agenda below,
Gibo's platform is a long, unedited version of Gordon's.
Here are the points they differ:

Gibo wants to give the Regional leaders autonomy to create their own
funds and pass their own laws. He also said he would disband the
armies, but I think this freedom will only give central government
more money to pocket and local goons, more power to control. This
policy without discipline could end in disaster.
*discipline being gordon and bayani's forte, but they do not want to
give local leaders that kind of freedom instead, more monitoring of
local government.

Gibo wants to "court" private sectors for public infrastructure to be
built. That will eventually result in high prices for the people
because private entities are out for the buck..just like the super
highway that rakes in millions in a day.

Gibo wants us to BORROW MORE MONEY because debt, he says, is better
than effective taxation.
Gordon and Bayani want to enforce taxes and streamline the government
so we won't need to borrow. Lets face it.. there is a lot of money in
the Philippines that just goes to the wrong hands. Law implementation
and management is what we need.

Gibo wants to have the Freedom of Information ACt, which allows the
government access to YOUR banking information, if they have due
reason. *in this corrupt ridden government that due reason could be an
intention to coerce you or blackmail you once they know how much money
you have.

Computerize land registration: widestream land grabbing?

And this is the clincher.. he actually said the Administration *ie
Gloria's rule, actually saw an 80% decrease of political killings. Ask
any STAND UPer or CNS.. they will tell you otherwise.
A lie on his very own platform.. tisk tisk.

Lest I forget, Gordon and Bayani's reforms are not just words on
paper. *though Gibo definitely outworded them..by literally word
count.
Gordon and Bayani are known for implementing the laws. You know they
get the job done. Bayani retrenched the marikina river, and as MMDA
the pasig river, and mandated MAYNILAD to take care of the future
wastewater system problem. Gibo can talk, but Gordon and Bayani have
done, and will continue to do so for each citizen.

Don't be fooled by the harangue. True leaders talk less, do more.
Gordon and Bayani is the team that can bring us to our vision of the
Philippines. They are the true choice of the choicest intellectuals.

I just came from the launch of Emerge, March 25, 2010.

 I write like a scribe because I feel that the events from this moment on should be documented. I am confident that the movement that has begun, not just here,
 but years ago in the minds and hearts of the people, are about to take fruition. If not to begin its upward spiral into the cataclysmic tipping point that will transform the generation.

 This is the ideal. But in fact, I would be content if from this moment we begin a slow change from generation to generation of a new breed of Filipinos. The generation that will be morally upright, and stand for their rights and the rights of others in the face of adversity. The same generation that bear in their hearts and minds true love for our country, a force of emotion so strong that will drive them to acts of nobility. Acts that will show them, and the world, the nature
and
 greatness of a true Filipino.

This generation that shall move in united independence,
 in their own lives and collectively,
 towards the one vision that we uphold of a better tomorrow: A Philippines reborn. We dream of a Philippines free of Financial and cultural shackles,
whose citizens live in dignity and abundance. Our nation of people filled with love for family and faithfulness to the law, our nation of single vision and trustworthy governance, our nation of progress and sustainable development. Our nation that provides us with ample health services, education and protection from any and all that would take advantage of our inherent kindness.

We understand that this vision is no simple task, and for it to come about requires courage on my part, to be that Filipino of steel moral fiber in this time of greed,

to be the bearer of my vision as a beacon of light in this time of disenchantment,

 to carry the love of my country proudly on my breast,

and bravely be counted as one of those who began it all. Today, I am the one. Tomorrow, in the light of my Philippines reborn, I am the people of the new republic.                                                                                                                                                                          I have in my bag, a rock that held down the paper of ideas of my group. Now it is the rock from which I build my personal mission to help my country, because I love it.   


 Post script: I don’t know when, I don’t know how, but I know something is happening right now.. –little mermaid Haha.

I just wanted to share my personal vision in the hopes that you might want to join me in this momentous quest. I believe the time is right for us to begin.
Emerge is a great starting point to inspire your heart toward this new calling. If you can come, please contact pagasayouth@gmail.com Or call Louise At +63921--‐674--‐25--‐74. For more information, check out www.emerge2010.tk. If you see the truth in this vision, and feel a call to rise, you can start in many ways. First and most pertinently, by voting wisely. Do research and rely on facts and deeds instead of campaign slogans and empty promises. Next is by starting to live like the Filipino we dream to be. It’s time for a change.

  Lately, I have been craving for the KFC Chinese Imperial Bowl. *which I will insist on calling Oriental Bowl.

 Much to the disregard of my normal eating habits, this breaks many rules. The no oil, no fried, no starch, not too much rice, no false flavorings, and even the amount of one bowl is over the volume I eat in a meal..so that covers breaking the moderation rule.
 I really do enjoy it. The sweet and spice of it. The fact that it is a substantial and heavy meal,the soft rice, the crunchy starch that is salty *there’s another one.. I just eat it, and I feel so good. When asked why I liked it, I told my friends, it’s my happy food.

Today I come from a 12 hour work day of standing up and running around. *between that some work gets done. I never know when I’m tired, but my right leg got a cramp because of the stress and dehydration. I decide to take a break and see the Orange Chicken at Chowking. *this is not a commercial people, stay with me.
 I love it right away. It tastes sweet and less spicy. It reminds me of Oriental Chicken, happy food, and then it hits me. Lemon Chicken reminds me of my favorite person whom I broke up with. The break up was fast and furious, that it didn’t get me a chance to properly mourn it. (or perhaps I was so intent on moving on, I forgot to mourn it..) And as I ate and realized I was sad, I noticed that I started eating faster. And then I stopped myself and thought up this whole article. Let me continue..

 Before any incident, there was a time when I was tired and hungry and I started thinking negative thoughts, and after I had eaten and rested, realized that I was just tired and hungry. J haha

So now, when I am really sad, I think, I’m just hungry.. And that is why even if I am not hungry, I eat oriental chicken! And I eat oriental chicken as a substitute for deeper things! The sadness also gives me motivation to very minutely self destruct with all the fatty greasy food..

 I started opening this whole bag of emotions in Chowking that I didn’t want to have in public so I rode a cab. He started haggling me for more money after finding out where I was going. I wasn’t in the mood to argue, so I cried. I cried the whole trip home.

I cried because I had to admit that what I lost was precious to me, whether it was worthy of being precious in real life or not, that if it felt so real, the loss of it was so heavy. I cried because I have everything I want *at this point in time, but had created ways and means to be a block to my own happiness. Basically I had a good cry. *which is also why I was insisting on seeing this movie that would make me cry.. because I had not properly cried..and so now I have.

They say eyes are the windows to the soul. I think when we cry, it’s because our soul was made so pure it finds it hard to accept the harshness of the outside world. This is when we close our eyes and are sometimes blind to reality. But sometimes you have to open your eyes. And God knew that tears would be needed to protect something so fragile. So horaay for tear ducts..and God!

 Now I know the depth of my Oriental Chicken. Now I know to address my feelings, and avoid getting obese in some sort of self destruction. Now, I am still thankful for the sweet and spice of discovering and loving, and bring my experience with me.


    Flash forward the next day. I no longer have my Oriental Chicken fixation, because I know why I got it. We fixed the last paperwork for the condo, and I am sad. I may have everything I want *as of now, career wise and this, but I’d have to say it feels just the same as my last heart break. There’s just better trimming, more logic..more reasons not to feel so bad. This time, I’m level headed, and stronger. The owner of the unit gave me Happy Cream Puff ..which I find funny, and I believe is a sign of things to come J  

  WHO I AM VOTING AND WHY I AM WRITING THIS..

 Let’s run down the presidentiables:
 NOYNOY AQUINO

  Let’s start this off by saying Noynoy is a mama’s boy. Or his popularity is largely dependent on his mher and the women in his life, yes, even Kris. What kind of a president relies on her sister, in a press conference, to answer questions for them? When asked, “Are you running for President?” Balsy Aquino has to go to the mike and say, yes he is! It would be wise to try to find out who will be running the country for the ex autistic candidate, from his family to his cabinet to the list of unknowns that now push him into a candidacy he did not initiate himself. It’s bad enough that he has to use the death of his parents to get by on polls, but what is worse is that Cory and Benigno Aquino won’t be calling the shots on our future, he will. What exactly has he done in Congress and the Senate? Allegedly anti-corruption, we have no track record of such a great and noble claim. Besides which, the Hacienda Luisita, property of the Aquino family itself, still has not settled disputes of the land reform farmers waiting for their fair share of the land they spilled sweat and blood on. Yes there has been a body count. Here is the massacre footage http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeJT8p6xaag . I just think, if you cannot settle your own house, what more your country?

 MANNY VILLAR

 Let’s take him for who he is, Money Villar. He is a businessman. Sure, he came from poverty, but he is far from poor now, and from A to B, his mind was on one thing: making money. The past press releases you’ve seen on TV, him helping OFW’s etc. are all real, yes but are all a part of a costly media marketing propaganda geared to get him on the presidential seat. Once he is there, be sure that his costly investments will pay off exponentially. This ofcourse will cost us, we the Filipino people, who would be duped into the hope, the dream of having our problems solved. Villar I think has just discovered that being in the government is a very lucrative profession. Here is more on him. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UZ5icSM70CU

 “ERAP” JOSEPH ESTRADA

 Okay, he is a candidate! I included him because some people are seriously considering this guy. After being impeached for corruption, you would think they would have remembered that he was a bad egg. So they say everybody is corrupt and so what if he gambles and has many women *so do most of the male Filipino population, but really, what is it that makes him so good to excuse his bad personal history and criminal case I mean, he was convicted so that makes him a felon, against the people.. His good looks? You mean we are looking for a good looking president? Might as well elect Richard frikkin Gutierrez then.

His FPJ demeanor? Poor King didn’t even win his own elections..and besides, a president is not an actor pretending to be a leader. He actually has to BE one. His.. what? Really? Why erap? I forget. I hope you do not forget. This guy was removed from the seat by a revolution, and was impeached and guilty of corruption. Remember the facts.

 “GIBO” GILBERT  TEODORO
http://www.google.com.ph/url?sa=t&source=web&ct=res&cd=1&ved=0CAsQFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FGilberto_Teodoro&ei=Rke3S7LaC5WekQWPwOnICQ&usg=AFQjCNG4EIlEfIEWa1N9lhXgfMe1vlLh-g&sig2=H9VmQKB3i0PVSon5Iyo-4A

 I was also impressed by this guy. They say he is the only man who actually has a plan for being in his office, but in a debate with Dick Gordon (which was scratched away from you tube) he failed to account for how exactly he would create more medical support for the Filipino. One instance aside, I was really impressed by this guy’s standing. Harvard Law School, and De La Salle. Actually this guy is pretty high class. Much unlike what the name GIBO, which makes him seem more  accessible to the masses, Gibo graduated from  De La sale, and Harvard which are not schools for the disenfranchised, and he is actually a Cojuangco. His whole name is actually Gilbert Cojuangco Teodoro, which media tends to downplay. Not that being rich is bad. The only thing I have against him is that he is for the same administration that is now upon us and most importantly: Galing at Talino is not action. This guy, for all his credentials, has only been a Congressman of Tarlac for three terms. As a congressman, where was he in the impeachment trials, the VFO, and all the other salient issues? Galing and Talino is nothing without action. And that is what our country needs. More that cute faces and impressive diplomas, we need someone who gets things done. That’s why I chose this man.

 RICHARD GORDON

He started being in the limelight when he kicked out the Am boys from Subic and cleaned it up. From the dirty girls to the dirty streets, Subic was renewed and became world class. I think this is commendable because first and foremost, A president’s job is executive and most closely resembled by the direct responsibilities of a mayor. How he handles the direct power, how he handles the budget and balances it toward the needs of the people and how he creates progress for the uplifting of the lives of his people: these are all responsibilities of a president reflected in the microcosm of a city.

 My uncle is Jun Mamba, and during his term as mayor, he cleaned up his town of Jueteng permanently as well as made it the cleanest and greenest town. This didn’t happen overnight. Real change takes time, and  accomplishments like this are borne out of an honest commitment to serve, and a dedication to principled causes. Same with Gordon * and Bayani, their work speaks for themselves. I just hope that the people see through the hype and commercials, and see that the choice should be borne of action and what the person has really DONE.

Not just this, all his programs and tenets have been consistent since he started. What he stood for before, he still abides and sticks to now. He has been a member of the red cross for 40 years now. Things like that are not pa-pogi, and requires discipline and long term vision if not sincerity.

 Gordon with running mate Bayani Fernando, demonstrate a capability never before seen. These men have created real change. Change that we have seen in the past, changes that we dream for in our country, they have done in their microcosms. So, now that they have expressed the desire to expand their good work to the country, I think it’s time to take a stand. They can make the necessary changes the old politicians are scared to make. They have the political will * and that translates to balls to get the job, whatever needs to be done, done. They will be stepping on toes, they will be pissing off people, but they will be doing it for long term change, and the progress that some don’t even have the confidence to dream of anymore. We don’t need the smartest, or the cutest, or the most popular on the polls in north Luzon where his family is popular. We need someone who can work, and give honor to what the government is supposed to stand for, and give the people a reason to trust it again because of the changes we will see.

 I am not making promises for our Presidentiable. But I am saying that among our choices, there I hope. And instead of losing faith, or throwing our vote away just because “malakas daw si…” I am asking you to make an informed choice, and like me, not to let it end there. I believe in Richard Gordon, and because of this, I am asking you to use the power of your vote, the only power we seemingly have in this corrupt reality, to help give our country a fighting chance. Vote for the right candidate. And if you can, please pass this..Make your vote count and make others' votes count as well.


 J http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Gordon_(politician) www.dickgordon2010.com/  

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    Here is the secret solution to most of the problems facing anyone. fear, loneliness, boredom, whatever. A sense of lack, whatever negative emotion you may feel, it is false. it is a hardwire conditioning put in your brain when you were very small or unconscious or even conscious of it. The origin doesn’t matter, *but it is in the reactive mind or perhaps in the organic chemical composition of your brain..which is malleable. the fact is it is an illusion. A non-entity.   What is more important is the secret to getting over whatever negative emotion, and that is by ignoring it.  Get over it.  See what causes it,. The cause is your own choice to think of the negative. and like a robber who gets caught, the neg becomes powerless. You have exposed the source, and the negation for the nothing that it is.   Then you ground yourself. This can be done in different ways, but the effects are as follows: you realize that you are a whole complete person, right now, fully capable of fulfilling your desires, fully prepared and worthy for success, love, prosperity, health, friends (positives) at the degree that elates your very being.   How do you ground yourself?   Live in the now Stop living in the past. Stop worrying about the future. Just live in the very point of now. Let that be your concern. It is not being a hedonist, but dwelling in the mind set of the present. What can you do now to live better than before? What are you doing now to contribute to your future? Once you answer this, do it and focus on the doing. Observe and appreciate the things that are around you now.   BE and “work”  Let your work ring true to who you are. Be who you are. Accept the flaws that you now have. Improve in the now, if you wish. Know that by doing what you do best, or doing what you want to do, you add to the vast collection of human experience and human masterpieces that are part of God.   Connect Most importantly, stop living for yourself alone. Grounding is the realization that there are other people in this world, and by reaching out to them, you come alive. It is knowing that there is a force that creates all things and that that is within you and everywhere. It is knowing that Life is now, it is here, it is inside you and all around you at once.   Centering Grounding for me, is always keeping in touch, and being one with my God. Whatever it may be for you, know that there is a center within you that is untouchable, that is peace eternal and love unconditional. It is the core that you return to when the fleeting and superficial world gives you grief. It is the source of all good. It is just within your reach. ALWAYS.  It guides you, all you have to do is listen. With it, you will always know the best path. It will give you the courage to walk this great path.. but you have to choose it.   Then all that hollow searching, the loneliness or fear, whatever neg is gone. The negative has been gone all along.   Connecting with your source is all there is to it. Because good is all there is.